Hi,
I would like to setup my website so that females automatically go to a "females group" which allows them to message anyone for free... while i would like to restrict the males by moving them to a "males group"
I have seen this can be done by some mysql hack and running a cron job... but i dont think members are willing to wait 30 mins or so for a cron job to run... also i think there must be a more stable solution by now ?